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Zainab's avatar

Thank you so much for this forum. Navigating this world as a mixed human [I’m White/Asian (Pakistani)] is such a unique challenge. It’s like we’re all on an island together, but also kinda on our own islands individually😂 Bc like you said everyone has a different experience. Something I found super fascinating last year is that even though my siblings and I share the same parents, grew up in the same house, attended the same Masjid/Mosque, same schools, etc, we have COMPLETELY different experiences with acceptance/rejection within either community, as well as with our shared relatives.

Thank you for being so open with your personal experiences. It’s comforting and empowering to know that we are not alone in our struggles. I look forward to reading more about your journey!

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Tatyana M.'s avatar

This post really validated how I feel without even knowing how much I needed it. I’m Filipino, Black and Mexican and still trying to navigate what that all means…. Especially in a sense that I never feel like any one of my ethnicities because it’s not 100%.

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Asia Jackson's avatar

It's a frustrating journey to go through because everyone keeps telling what you are and are not and as a result you end up feeling like you're nobody. There's a certain sense of liberation that comes from deciding that you're not gonna let people tell you who you are anymore. It takes a lot of work to get there and people will still try very hard to invalidate who you are, but in the end it's so so worth it. ❤️

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